Melissa Lee

Self Love Sex Coach

I've been an erotica writer for over ten years and it's changed the way I see and experience my sexuality. Writing has offered space to explore my desire, curiosities, pleasure, emotions and helped me give a voice to deeper issues that come up when sexually engaging with someone. From rage, to fear to depression, to peace, to joy, to bliss, all is welcome on the page. 

Loving our creative, sexual expression is the ultimate form of self love. When we fall in love with the very essence of who we are we're free to open into the intimate, loving, adventurous  shame-free sexual experience we crave. 


Patreon: www.patreon.com/strawberrysmutcakes
Instagram: @strawberrysmutcakes
Facebook: Strawberry Smutcakes Writing Circle

Working with Melissa was wonderful. Throughout, I could hear a smile in her voice and her effervescent giggles kept the tone light and playful where it could have felt heavy. Her insightful questions help me put pieces together from my past to build the picture of why my relationship to my body and sexuality was what it has been. Knowing where some of my ideas, patterns, and narratives have come from have been immensely helpful to say good bye to unhelpful/unhealthy ones and move forward. The erotica prompt at the end was spot on and has been fun to play with and lean into. I cannot say enough good things about Melissa! 

Christy S.

Client

loved working with Melissa. She knew just what questions to ask me to get me curious about myself and how I show up sexually. For someone that identifies as “self-aware” she had me going even deeper to get really curious about my feelings. I felt heard, appreciated, and empowered. I enjoyed writing my first erotica piece. After the first couple minutes I got really into it and the words came alive and the story felt real. It felt so good to write about a woman who shows up open, passionate, and unafraid to express herself sexually. This is me and Melissa helped me to uncover her! 

T.W.

Client

Before our call I felt nervous but excited. I was uncertain of what we would talk about or how Melissa could help me gain some clarity surrounding my own creative practice and sensual expression. The main reason I wanted to speak more with Melissa was because I am working through some uncertainty that I have around my own pleasure-based business services. During our call together Melissa made me feel secure and supported by listening to and holding space for my truth and my desires. Melissa gave me a loving reminder that I already have permission to feel good and experience pleasure in the ways that I want and deserve. She also had great suggestions for somatic self-care and reflective journaling. I left our call feeling energized and motivated to take action in areas that will help me to grow creatively and professionally. 

Lauren R. S.

Client

Melissa Lee

Self Love Sex Coach

About Me

I've been an erotica writer for over ten years and it's changed the way I see and experience my sexuality. Writing has offered space to explore my desire, curiosities, pleasure, emotions and helped me give a voice to deeper issues that come up when sexually engaging with someone. From rage, to fear to depression, to peace, to joy, to bliss, all is welcome on the page. 

Loving our creative, sexual expression is the ultimate form of self love. When we fall in love with the very essence of who we are we're free to open into the intimate, loving, adventurous  shame-free sexual experience we crave. 


Patreon: www.patreon.com/strawberrysmutcakes
Instagram: @strawberrysmutcakes
Facebook: Strawberry Smutcakes Writing Circle

Service Offering

Testimonials

Working with Melissa was wonderful. Throughout, I could hear a smile in her voice and her effervescent giggles kept the tone light and playful where it could have felt heavy. Her insightful questions help me put pieces together from my past to build the picture of why my relationship to my body and sexuality was what it has been. Knowing where some of my ideas, patterns, and narratives have come from have been immensely helpful to say good bye to unhelpful/unhealthy ones and move forward. The erotica prompt at the end was spot on and has been fun to play with and lean into. I cannot say enough good things about Melissa! 

Christy S.

Client

loved working with Melissa. She knew just what questions to ask me to get me curious about myself and how I show up sexually. For someone that identifies as “self-aware” she had me going even deeper to get really curious about my feelings. I felt heard, appreciated, and empowered. I enjoyed writing my first erotica piece. After the first couple minutes I got really into it and the words came alive and the story felt real. It felt so good to write about a woman who shows up open, passionate, and unafraid to express herself sexually. This is me and Melissa helped me to uncover her! 

T.W.

Client

Before our call I felt nervous but excited. I was uncertain of what we would talk about or how Melissa could help me gain some clarity surrounding my own creative practice and sensual expression. The main reason I wanted to speak more with Melissa was because I am working through some uncertainty that I have around my own pleasure-based business services. During our call together Melissa made me feel secure and supported by listening to and holding space for my truth and my desires. Melissa gave me a loving reminder that I already have permission to feel good and experience pleasure in the ways that I want and deserve. She also had great suggestions for somatic self-care and reflective journaling. I left our call feeling energized and motivated to take action in areas that will help me to grow creatively and professionally. 

Lauren R. S.

Client